A life lived correctly is inherently brutal, not because the world is unfair or cruel, but because true growth demands constant confrontation with the unknown. Most people perceive friction and obstacles as signs that they are off track. The reality is that friction is the very proof you’re stepping into new territory. If you’re not regularly feeling out of your depth, you’re coasting and becoming stagnant.
The deepest truth: discomfort isn’t just inevitable; it’s essential.
Chase friction relentlessly.
March 7, 2025 at 9:48 am
I am not agree with you. When we seek the real truth, our true inner nature, there are many obstacles, it is truth and it is very difficult because we must believe with all our cell and overcome our fears, this requires total commitment and doubt is not allowed, while everything in society and our surroundings often tells us and sometimes shows us that we are wrong, but we must believe in oneselves, inside. It is very difficult but this is not brutal, no violence in truth life because life only takes us where we can go.
March 17, 2025 at 11:01 am
Thank you for your thoughtful response. I completely understand your perspective. When I use the term “brutal,” I’m not referring to violence or harm, but rather to the discomfort that comes with stepping into new and unfamiliar territory. Growth, in my view, often requires us to face challenges that push us out of our comfort zones, and while this can be difficult, it’s essential for personal transformation.
I agree with you that life and truth guide us to where we are ready to go. The obstacles we encounter along the way aren’t about life being cruel but rather about us overcoming fear and doubt, and that journey of self-belief is deeply important. In essence, we’re both speaking to the same truth—growth requires struggle, but how we frame that struggle makes all the difference. I appreciate your insight into the process being more natural and organic.
March 7, 2025 at 8:20 pm
Thank you for your profound and insightful posts – I am so glad that you came back and that you are following your passion.
I need the courage too to blog daily and try to make things better in the world, and to earn money to survive.
Looking out for the next one…
Janis Theron
March 24, 2025 at 8:57 pm
Thank you so much for your kind words, Janis. I can completely relate to the courage it takes to blog consistently and pursue your passion, especially when balancing the need to make a living. The journey isn’t always easy, but it’s so rewarding when we keep going. I have no doubt you’ll find the courage and strength to make it happen.
March 9, 2025 at 7:30 pm
I can understand where you’re coming from, however, a life lived correctly doesn’t have to be brutal. When you confront the unknown, then you have the choice to learn and to grow, or not. I always choose to learn and to understand. By doing so, I empower myself and very seldom feel out of depth. In essence, I lubricate the friction. Therefore, I would recommend lubrication, every time.
March 17, 2025 at 11:03 am
Thank you for sharing your perspective, I really appreciate it. I see where you’re coming from, and I agree that life doesn’t have to be brutal in a negative sense. My point about friction and brutality is more about how discomfort and challenge are often unavoidable aspects of growth, especially when we’re stepping into unfamiliar or difficult situations.
I love your idea of “lubricating the friction”—by choosing to learn and understand, you’re reducing the resistance, which allows growth to happen more smoothly. In a way, we’re both talking about embracing the discomfort, but in different ways. I see friction as an inevitable force that can be transformative, and it sounds like you see it as something you can manage and navigate with more ease.
March 31, 2025 at 8:43 pm
I 90% agree with you on this one. Wonderful post. Only the world is cruel and unfair, but this too can be used to push us up rather than into the mire. Jack Sparrow said: It is not the problem that is the problem but our attitude towards the problem that was the problem… Much like work is an essential in order to live so is pain and discomfort if we ever want to be more than overgrown children.
April 3, 2025 at 9:01 pm
I appreciate your perspective, and I like how you put it. Using life’s hardships as fuel rather than letting them pull us down. The world can be unfair, but resilience often comes from facing that reality head-on. That Jack Sparrow quote is a great reminder that our mindset shapes how we navigate challenges.
Has there been a time when you’ve managed to turn a tough situation into something positive?
April 22, 2025 at 11:47 am
Thought provoking and insightful!
October 7, 2025 at 12:02 am
Cool perception of reality. I like it!
October 7, 2025 at 7:58 pm
I’m so glad to hear that you like it, Cursten! Have an amazing day!
October 7, 2025 at 8:03 pm
Of course. You too!
October 8, 2025 at 5:48 pm
Thank you so much!
October 8, 2025 at 6:04 pm
You’re welcome!
October 8, 2025 at 8:32 pm
Thanks!
October 8, 2025 at 10:40 pm
No problem!