Who are you?

A parable from priest and therapist Anthony de Mello on the stories we tell ourselves:

“A man found an eagle’s egg and put it in a nest of a barnyard hen. The eaglet hatched with the brood of chickens and grew up with them.

All his life the eagle did what the barnyard chicks did, thinking he was a barnyard chicken. He scratched the earth for worms and insects. He clucked and cackled. And he would thrash his wings and fly a few feet into the air.

Years passed and the eagle grew very old. One day he saw a magnificent bird above him in the cloudless sky. It glided in graceful majesty among the powerful wind currents, with scarcely a beat of its strong golden wings.

The old eagle looked up in awe. “Who’s that?” he asked.

“That’s the eagle, the king of the birds,” said his neighbor. “He belongs to the sky. We belong to the earthβ€”we’re chickens.”

So the eagle lived and died a chicken, for that’s what he thought he was.”

18 Comments

  1. shiningmycandlelight July 21, 2021

    Thought provoking indeed!

  2. carolfishel July 21, 2021

    Other persons are often damaged and distorted mirrors, yielding reflections of us that are not true to our being.
    Close and powerful reflections shape us early. How can we know, accept, affirm, and appreciate our true selvesβ€”shadow side and all. I believe it is a spiritual journey based on a developing relationship with God. That becomes truly transcending.

    1. Wandering Ambivert August 5, 2021

      That’s very deep and beautiful πŸ™‚

  3. mic.mimic July 21, 2021

    So maybe I can fly?

    1. Wandering Ambivert August 3, 2021

      Spread those wings πŸ™‚

  4. Debbi July 21, 2021

    Reblogged this on Random and Sundry Things and commented:
    Best short story I’ve read in a long time!

    1. Wandering Ambivert August 3, 2021

      Thank you for sharing!

  5. Quentin Russell July 21, 2021

    Don’t be a chicken if you’re an eagle. Don’t just keep doing what’s always been done. Stretch your wings.

    1. Wandering Ambivert August 3, 2021

      Absolutely!

  6. Purva July 21, 2021

    Does it matter if eagle is happy to be a chicken ? πŸ™ƒ

    1. Wandering Ambivert August 3, 2021

      A very good question πŸ™‚

      1. Purva August 4, 2021

        What’s the answer from your side πŸ€”

      2. Wandering Ambivert August 4, 2021

        No, it definitely doesn’t matter if the eagle is happy to be a chicken

  7. Terence Kuch – Memorable Fancies July 22, 2021

    A beautiful story, but a real downer.

  8. Lafieta Chisholm July 26, 2021

    Even if I have lived all this time and didn’t know who I was. I will not die like that. Loved this

  9. habibkorede August 19, 2021

    This is a magnificent read!

    1. Wandering Ambivert August 20, 2021

      <3

  10. lillianfalciglia October 13, 2021

    I will have something to ponder on today, and the rest of my days. A very interesting story.

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